Christian Marriage Counseling
70Christian Marriage Counseling - What's Wrong With the Current Methods
Have you and your spouse become that couple that you promised yourself you would never become before you got married?
You'd have no problem spotting the couple we're referring to. That couple that's always bickering. The kind where it's completely apparent that they're always frustrated with one another.
The kind you always used to see and know in your heart that one -- or both -- was involved in an affair.
It's unfortunate, but this type of relationship is more common than we'd like to admit. As Christians, our divorce rate is above 50%.
So it should be pretty obvious that whatever we've been trying up to this point isn't working.
So what's really wrong?
Why are we still facing an epidemic of divorce in the Christian church when there are all these books, counselors, sermons, programs who knows what else all promising to teach you how to make your marriage succeed?
We promise to you that when we reveal the answer to that, you'll never look at your relationship the same way again -- in fact, this one simple truth is at the heart of nearly every single successful Christian marriage we've ever come across.
Christian Marriage Counseling
Why Christian Marriage Counseling Isn't Working Today
But let's back up for a second before we jump too far ahead. I'm going to show you in just a second a few resources I think you should use that will help to completely turn your marriage around, no matter what's happened in the past, but first let's talk about a few things.
The simple truth of the matter is this...
Traditional Christian marriage counseling just doesn't work.
And you know what's even worse? Traditional counseling is probably going to make your marriage even more likely to fail.
We know that that's going to be a bit difficult for many people to hear. No doubt you've given the traditional advice a chance - maybe you're tried the "wife must submit to her husband plan," or the "wife should respect her husband plan," and perhaps even the "husband as servant leader plan."
And still, it's not working.
We were on the path to divorce 14 years ago. And although we followed all of the traditional advice, we were still headed down the slippery road to a failed marriage and ultimately divorce.
We never could have saved our marriage and become the happy couple we are now without learning the truth.
But what's happened is that most of the advice that's floating around today for Christian couples isn't right. Most Christian marriage counselors teach strategies that just aren't right.
It's not that every expert out there is trying to spread bad advice. Most of them probably mean well in the end.
The underlying problem is that they're working from a set of faulty assumptions.
An "Okay" Marriage Shouldn't Be Good Enough
Here's What To Do Now
So, now we should talk about how to rescue your marriage by getting rid of these dangerous assumptions.
The first thing you must do now is head over to our site where we show you exactly why traditional Christian marriage counseling doesn't work.
You'll have access to video, audio and downloaded print tools that are going to get results in your marriage started immediately. Oh, and did I forget to mention that it's free.
We're looking forward to seeing you over there.
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Has Traditional Christian Marriage Counseling Worked For You?
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If the counselor is using the Bible as a basis for truth and not some trendy pop-psychology thought, it should be fine.
I have had a few friends go to counselors and get some crazy, off-the wall directions. Yet some went to different counselors. It all depends on where they get their truth from.
Get your truth from the Bible, live by it, and compare it to what the counselor says. If it matches up, then go for it.
The best way to save your marriage is having a control over your temper. If you dont have a control on your anger and temper your marriage life will destroy and might end
Wow youth need counceling before they go further in marriage.because counceling is the guidline for successful marriage.councellor may God bless you.any email address?








Lady_E Level 7 Commenter 2 years ago
Interesting Hub. I would say that it works but that depends on the church you go to. Certain churches give different interpretation to the Word of God and pass this down to couples. If you attend a church that is truly walking in the light, then Counselling will work for you.